Wonder gifts for each other! DH was amazed one year because I asked for an eletric skillet for Christmas. A neighbor took him shopping and tried to talk him out of it saying it wasn't a good gift. He showed her the list of ideas I had to give him and it was at the top, followed by a thermomoter that you put in the ear. I was grossed out by everyone using the same one and passing germs.
A couple years ago I asked for red jammies and he gave me the money to buy the ones I wanted. Another year he bought me a winter coat. It was so pretty but it was way to small so I had to take it back. I wanted to kepp it but my boobs wouldn't fit in and let me zip it up.
Forgive your enemies - it messes with their minds.