I remember those days. Painful.
And today it appears I have done nothing... except for picking up a rental notice od termination, lease termination emailing, collected rent, paid rental bills, done rental bookkeeping, tried to accept DD's offer of admissin to university for her but the website's down, provided other DD with student loan/ student credit line, and unemployment insurance advice, emailed other tenants, provided rent receipts, paid personal bills, transferred money, etc., etc.
But my bed is not made, and I have two loads of laundry in the living room to be folded, while I think about what to make for dinner since I forgot to take meat out of the freezer.
It doesn't change when the kids get older, just more complex and less physical.